Is There Such Thing as a “Good” Affair? | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network
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Is There Such Thing as a “Good” Affair? | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network


IYANLA: What did you do? [LAUGHING] To infect your marriage? MARCIA: Um, I infected my marriage by having an affair. IYANLA: You had an affair? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: Whoo. You’re really not okay with that, are you? Was it a good affair? Was it a good affair? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: Okay. And when I mean good, not that you were betraying your husband, but was there something served, was there something fed, was there something learned? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: That makes it good. Now, you don’t have to go back and do that again. You can, but you don’t have to, but as long as you’re holding it like this, not gonna get the lesson.

21 Comments

  • Franny Becker

    Top D+++++ este canal ganhou mais uma inscrita ✨🌷💖🌷✨
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  • Big Sly

    I'm in Texas. I was talking to one of my homies today 10/21/2017 right at 5:05pm and as we were on the phone talking i heard him say Gotdang it in a loud voice. Before i can ask him what happened, he said, say man my neighbor just shot his ol lady while she was trying to get in her car. He got off the phone. I received a call from him around 8:30 tonight and he said that the girlfriend died. She have 3 children ages 15, 11 & 9. The boyfriend wasn't the father of neither child but took a mom away from her children behind what my potna said was infidelity. Some drama behind her intimate conversations on fb with a guy she was seeing. No affair is a good affair. The only good affair to have is one with the Heavenly Father. As i comment on this video crime scene is still invistigating the death of a mom that choose to do whatever she did to the guy instead of breaking off what they had.

  • MsDee's Perspective

    That's what he gets for marrying a woman 15yrs his junior. His dick can't get hard, he's wheezing, and she's not attracted to him. 😂😂😂

  • Zachary Lavender

    If either spouse goes outside of the marriage and commits adultery, There's no such thing as a good affair! What is she taking about? Her counseling is so ungodly!

  • RED ROSE

    What's the point in cheating period, if there is an issue talk, if you feel cheating is the way for them to listen you are better off walking away. I rather let you go if i feel like i will cheat then to hurt someone's heart even more by doing it while with them.

  • Yoon PARK

    Sometimes you are in bad marriage and affair reminds you your marriage is over. If you get out of the marriage despite weather someone you met outside will stay with you or not – I would say that is a good affair and actually gods way to lead you another way. Problem is so many people stay in the marriage out of fear and then constant difficulties will arise

  • PSALMSOFSONGS

    If she stands in front of God and talks to Him, He would not consider any kind of affair a "good" affair. Adultery is never good. It hurts the other spouse and effects the whole marriage.

  • Michelle Moss

    I’m looking at these comments and people are so upset cause she said good affair lol. A lot of people missed her point cause they were stuck on her wording. Of course a good affair exists lol. Some people make the mistake and have an affair and it changes them. They learn from it and become better people. The act wasn’t good but the outcome maybe. Good things come out of bad situations all the time. She even said this in the video the act was bad but she learned from it. People on her talking bout that ain’t godly and she ain’t right and I’m like God would definitely agree with her statement lol. The Bible is filled with stories of bad acts and good outcomes.

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