IYANLA: What did you do? [LAUGHING] To infect your marriage? MARCIA: Um, I infected my marriage by having an affair. IYANLA: You had an affair? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: Whoo. You’re really not okay with that, are you? Was it a good affair? Was it a good affair? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: Okay. And when I mean good, not that you were betraying your husband, but was there something served, was there something fed, was there something learned? MARCIA: Yes. IYANLA: That makes it good. Now, you don’t have to go back and do that again. You can, but you don’t have to, but as long as you’re holding it like this, not gonna get the lesson.